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10 Style Mistakes That Are Holding You Back (And How to Fix Them)

Style is all about expressing yourself, but even the most fashion-forward among us can fall into style traps without realising it. Whether you’re rushing through your morning routine or simply stuck in a wardrobe rut, it’s easy to make style missteps that can hold you back from looking and feeling your best. In this post, we’ll dive into 10 common style mistakes many of us make and more importantly, how to fix them so you can elevate your look and boost your confidence with ease. Ready to take your wardrobe to the next level? Let’s get started!

1. Wrong Fit

One of the biggest style mistakes you can make is wearing clothes that don’t fit properly. Whether it’s too tight, too loose, or just the wrong cut, an ill-fitting garment can throw off your entire look. Clothes that are too tight can create uncomfortable bulges or restrict movement, while overly baggy pieces can overwhelm your frame and look a little scruffy. The key to great style is balance – finding pieces that fit your body shape comfortably while still offering a flattering silhouette. If you’re unsure of your size, don’t hesitate to invest in tailoring. A few minor adjustments can make a world of difference and elevate your look in ways you won’t believe!

2. Clashing Colours

While experimenting with colour is a fun way to express your style, clashing colours can easily derail your outfit. Wearing too many contrasting shades can create a chaotic, mismatched look that distracts from your overall appearance. The key to colour coordination is understanding the colour wheel and choosing hues that complement each other. For a balanced look, try pairing neutral tones with one or two accent colours, or explore monochromatic outfits for a sleek, polished vibe. If you’re feeling adventurous, complementary colours (like blue and orange or red and green) can work well when balanced thoughtfully, allowing each hue to shine without overwhelming the eye.

3. Outdated Trends

It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of ever-changing fashion trends, but relying too heavily on them can cause you to lose sight of your personal style. Trends come and go, and what’s in today might be outdated tomorrow. Instead of following every trend that pops up, focus on curating a wardrobe that reflects your own unique style. Identify the cuts, colours, and silhouettes that make you feel confident and comfortable, and build your collection around those staples. When you dress for yourself rather than what’s “in,” you create a look that is timeless and truly yours, rather than something that fades with the next season’s trends.

4. Not Accessorising

While it’s easy to focus on the clothing itself, failing to accessorise can make even the most stylish outfit feel incomplete. Accessories are the finishing touch that can transform an otherwise basic outfit into something more polished and personalised. Whether it’s layered necklaces, a pair of earrings, or a classic belt, accessories add an extra layer of depth and interest to your look. They allow you to express your personality and creativity in ways that clothing alone can’t. Neglecting accessories can make your outfit appear flat or uninspired, as they help tie everything together and can even shift an outfit from casual to chic or vice versa. So, don’t overlook the power of accessories – when used thoughtfully, they can elevate your entire look and add a unique touch that’s all your own.

5. Wearing Clothes That Don’t Suit Your Proportions

One of the most important factors in looking your best is understanding your body’s proportions and choosing clothing that complements them. Wearing clothes that don’t suit your proportions can throw off your entire silhouette, making you appear unbalanced or out of sync with your natural shape. For example, if you have a shorter torso, overly long tops can make your legs appear shorter, while oversized clothing might drown your frame. On the other hand, clothes that are too tight can create discomfort and emphasise areas you may not want to draw attention to. To avoid this, focus on styles that highlight your best features – whether it’s opting for high-waisted pants to elongate your legs or choosing tailored pieces that follow the lines of your body. The right fit can create a harmonious look, making you feel confident and showcasing your proportions beautifully.

6. Ignoring Shoes

Shoes are often an afterthought in many outfits, but neglecting them can be a major style mistake. The right pair of shoes can tie an entire look together, while the wrong pair can throw off even the most carefully curated outfit. Whether it’s wearing worn-out shoes, or simply opting for comfort over style, choosing shoes that don’t complement your outfit can detract from your overall appearance. Investing in comfortable yet stylish shoes ensure you always have a decent pair for everyday wear, whether it’s classic loafers, versatile sneakers, or elegant flats. Properly fitting shoes not only enhance your comfort but also add a layer of polish to your ensemble. Don’t overlook this essential part of your wardrobe – consider the style, colour, and appropriateness of your shoes to ensure they complete your look, rather than detract from it.

7. Not Investing In Basics

Basics are the foundation of any well-rounded wardrobe, yet they’re often overlooked in favour of more eye-catching, trendy pieces. However, failing to invest in high-quality basics – such as well-fitted t-shirts, classic jeans, versatile sweaters, and good quality coats – can leave your wardrobe lacking in both versatility and structure. Basics serve as the building blocks for countless outfits, offering a solid base that can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion. When you invest in well-made basics, you ensure that your wardrobe remains functional, stylish, and timeless. These staples can be mixed and matched with trendier items or statement pieces to create a polished look every time. By prioritising basics, you’ll find that your outfits are more cohesive, and you’ll always have reliable go-to options, no matter the season.

8. Being Underdressed

When in doubt, it’s always better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed. After all, being the person who shows up looking effortlessly stylish can never hurt, while being underdressed can sometimes leave you feeling out of place. Even in casual settings, a little extra effort can go a long way – whether it’s swapping a basic tee for a trendy blazer or trading flip-flops for a pair of sleek boots. The beauty of being slightly overdressed is that you’ll always stand out in the best way, and you’ll never have to worry about looking like you didn’t put thought into your appearance. Plus, it’s much easier to tone down an outfit than to try and make an underwhelming one more exciting. So, don’t be afraid to embrace a little extra flair and enjoy the confidence that comes with it!

9. Neglecting Proper Garment Care

Clothes that are faded, wrinkled, or poorly maintained can quickly diminish even the most stylish outfits. Neglecting proper garment care – like washing according to labels, using the right detergent, or storing clothes correctly – can lead to unnecessary wear and tear. For example, removing pilling from bobbly jumpers and ironing out wrinkles can keep your clothes looking sharp. Regularly refreshing your wardrobe by taking care of small details, such as using garment bags for delicate fabrics or keeping items stored properly, helps your clothes last longer and continue to look fresh. A little maintenance goes a long way in preserving your pieces and keeping your style on point.

10. Not Unlocking Your Personal Style

If you’re ready to elevate your style and feel more confident in your wardrobe, a Style Discovery is the perfect starting point. This one-off session will help you embrace your unique body shape, identify the colours that enhance your natural beauty, and unlock the secrets to expressing your personality through clothes. With a tailored approach, I’ll guide you through your style journey, ensuring you leave with the tools to dress confidently every day. At just £75, this personalised experience can be done in the comfort of your home or online if you’re further than an hour from Royston, Hertfordshire. Don’t wait to discover the joy of dressing for yourself – let’s get started today!

In conclusion, style is more than just about trends – it’s about expressing who you are, feeling confident, and wearing clothes that make you feel your best. By avoiding common style mistakes, like clashing colours or settling for ill-fitting clothes, and focusing on the pieces that truly suit your body and personality, you can create a wardrobe that works for you. Remember, it’s not about perfection; it’s about creating a style that makes you feel confident every day. If you’re ready to take the next step in discovering your unique look, I can help you to get started. Let’s work together to uncover the wardrobe and confidence you’ve always wanted.

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IS NEGATIVE BODY IMAGE AFFECTING YOUR PERSONAL STYLE?

It can be difficult to find your personal style, if you’re stuck in a negative mindset about the way you look. It’s all very well for me, other Personal Stylists and whoever else to give you tips & tricks to try and boost your confidence. But true self-esteem comes from within.

It’s something I think about a lot. The small ways in which we are negatively impacting our own self-confidence, then wondering why we don’t feel good about ourselves.

I’m on a mission to reject diet culture because it thrives on us feeling negatively about our bodies. Now I’m not here to preach that you should all do the same, but toxic diet culture affects my clients in many ways. They feel they shouldn’t wear certain things, they try to hide their bodies, they don’t allow themselves to buy clothes until they shrink their bodies, and so on.

Self-compassion doesn’t just mean you have to immediately start loving yourself because it’s not that easy. It’s about not punishing your body and living your life free from the constant thoughts about how to change it. You also don’t need anybody else to approve of the way you look. Focus on feeling healthy and happy in your skin. Don’t place your self-worth in the hands of others.

Personal Style

It is possible to learn to love the way you look through your style, without needing to change your body. Many find that learning about their body shape helps enormously, because they’re no longer dressing to hide, but to accentuate. Your body shape tends to stay the same no matter what size you are, so why not learn how to dress it?

Colour Analysis helps to find the most flattering colours for you, to help you glow on the days you’re not feeling your most sparkly self. Also, a personal stylist can help you identify your style personality so you’re dressing in a way that makes you feel good.

But all these things may need to be done alongside some mindset work.

Mindset

One major influence on how a lot of us feel, is to do with the content we consume every day. If you’re seeing idealised lives and bodies and wardrobes on your social media, is that making you feel good? Unfollow any account that makes you feel bad about yourself or jealous. Stop looking at ‘before and after’ photos. Be honest with yourself about whether that motivates you or upsets you.

Look for diverse accounts or influencers with a similar body type to you (Mys Tyler is great for this.) It’s important that you’re seeing how clothes could realistically look on you, not only on models or potentially photoshopped pictures. Research has shown that the more body positive and diverse content you see (rather than ‘inspirational’ content), the more positive you feel about yourself.

I’m always talking about intentional purchases. Now I’m asking you to stop mindlessly scrolling and start intentionally scrolling. Make sure you’re very carefully curating what you see.

Yes, what I do is about ‘appearance’ – but it’s more than skin deep. It’s about confidence and happiness. I have two children now, and I refuse to allow them to hear any talk of diets, body sizes, etc because there’s more to life. I know that you know that. Start living as though there is. Your size truly is the least interesting thing about you. And I mean that in the kindest possible way.

Life is too short to put your life on hold because of negative body image. Are you living the life you want? Are you dressing the way you’d like to? Are you being as kind to yourself as you are to your friends?

Comment below or contact me for a chat about how I can help.

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5 WAYS WORKING WITH A PERSONAL STYLIST CAN SAVE YOU MONEY

There’s often a misconception that Personal Stylists will just encourage you to spend money, and that it’s an extravagant treat only celebrities can afford.

In fact, working with a Personal Stylist is an investment that can help you save money.

Keep reading to discover the main ways working with a Personal Stylist can help you save money, while making you feel fabulous at the same time!

1. Avoid buying into trends that don’t suit you

A Personal Stylist can perform a Colour Analysis to show you what colour clothing suits you best.

They can help women and men understand what clothes flatter their body shape, so they can dress with confidence.

A good Stylist will also explain how to dress for your personal style, so you’re bringing these aspects together to suit your lifestyle and personality.

Once you’ve had a Personal Style Assessment, you can appreciate those new fashion trends whilst avoiding wasting money on the ones that don’t suit YOUR style.

Dressing for your body type

2. Less time traipsing around the shops or trawling online stores

When you invest in a Personal Shopping experience with a Stylist, we pre-select items before our shopping trip that we think will look amazing on you. On the day, we work with you to choose the perfect outfits so you go home with clothes that will work hard in your wardrobe.

If you’re the type of person who dreads clothes shopping or finds it stressful, then it’s a real treat to get some expert assistance in the fitting rooms.

For an Online Shop, we can create a shoppable mood board for you to select items from.

This way you’ll know that they will all suit you and you won’t have to spend time looking through lots of websites as we’ve done the hard work for you.

The success rate for these is high, so it should save you time and money on returning bad online purchases.

3. You’ll learn to wear what’s already in your wardrobe

A common misconception about Wardrobe Edits is that we’ll make you get rid of most of your clothes!

Unless that’s what you’d like us to help with, it’s not the case.

We can show you how to wear everything in your wardrobe, rather than just a small portion of it.

The fun part about the edit is creating new outfits from what you already have, and we’ll keep a list of any gaps that are worth filling so you get the most from your collection.

Once you have a clearer idea of what you own, you won’t waste so much money buying new all the time.

We can also help you sell anything that’s of value during the decluttering process.

4. Personal Stylists give you an unbiased, expert opinion that you can trust

Ever gone shopping with your family or friends and they just shrug when you try things on, or tell you everything looks great?

Or used a personal shopper in a department store who didn’t seem to “get” you?

An independent Personal Stylist is trained to help you find items that are perfect for you, because you are the client – not the store.

We work with you to ensure you don’t waste money on clothes you’ll leave in your wardrobe unworn, or you don’t feel fantastic in.

We’ll also teach you our stylist tips, so you’re learning along the way how to dress your best!

5. You won’t be influenced to buy things you don’t need

We’ve all been there. Something looks great on your friend or that person on Instagram, so you buy it on impulse. 

Or there’s a Sale on, so you snap up some bargains without thinking them through.

However, once a Personal Stylist has helped you rediscover your own style you can avoid these mistakes.

Some stylists, like myself, even have a Style Subscription for personalised monthly inspiration.

Being confident in your personal style will take away that feeling of panic buying and uncertainty.

We can show you how to look like an improved version of yourself, rather than a copy of somebody else.

So, as you can see, working with a Personal Stylist is not only a fantastic treat for yourself and a confidence boost but it can save you money, time, and stress in the long term.

Contact me today if you’d like a chat about any of my styling services and see my testimonials to see what people are saying about their experience.

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